The Top 10 Business Etiquette Faux Pas. Edited: Numbering/Colour
by Robert Ing
About the Author:
Dr. Robert Ing is a forensic specialist with appearances on North American news networks. He has provided security for celebrities and dignitaries. For more articles by Dr. Robert Ing please visit http://www.drroberting.com.
©Copyright 2005-2006 Dr. Robert Ing.
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In the world of business, it’s not what you do but how you do it. With one small gesture you can impress, insult, appear cultured and educated, or simply become a social outcast. In a competitive business environment whether you’re looking for a job, a raise, negotiating a major deal, interacting with peers, or knocking on doors for customers you will be ultimately judged on how you conduct yourself.
Here’s the top ten business etiquette faux pas that will keep you out of the executive suite and will land you on the “bush league” list. See how you stack up.
- Wearing a digital or oversized watch with business attire.
- Shaking hands without removing gloves.
- If sitting, not getting up when introduced to, or shaking hands with a business associate.
- Sending a FAX without a cover sheet.
- Accepting someone’s business card but not offering yours in exchange.
- Offering a client an inexpensive plastic pen (under $20) to sign a deal worth thousands. If you’re worried about losing, or someone accidentally pocketing your favorite pen, have your initials or name engraved on it. Engraved pens seem to stay with their owner longer!
- Not responding to e-mail messages within 24 – 36 hours.
- Calling people whose telephone numbers you obtained from your “Caller ID” service that didn’t leave a voice mail message.
- Having your mobile telephone ring during a meeting and making matters worse by taking the call.
- Not leaving your telephone number on a voice mail message because you “know” the person has it.
Another 16 fatal mistakes worthy of note are:
- Men wearing lapel pins that have no significance; if asked about them, how do you explain these things without appearing a bit green around the edges?
- Wearing excessive jewelry (more than three rings, more than one lapel pin, a large chain and medallion, etc.) with business attire.
- Wearing extra strong cologne or perfume with business attire.
- Leaving long voice mail messages (lasting over 180 seconds).
- Ladies wearing skirts or dresses that go well above the knee in a business environment.
- When asking for the name of a person on the telephone or in person, using the phrase “What was the name?” This is a definite cultural faux pas and an indirect insult to the person you’re speaking with.
- Calling a business or sales meeting without providing each attendee with a meeting agenda at least 24 hours in advance.
- When charging a business lunch or dinner, not leaving a cash tip but putting the tip on the credit card charge.
- Sending Faxes of more than six pages without informing the recipient beforehand.
- Putting the person you called on hold. If you initiate a telephone call, you are obligated to complete it without interruption.
- Sending a three page or less text document as an attached file to an e-mail message instead of pasting it in the body of the message. Maximize productivity & efficiency by minimizing effort! It will get read and handled faster in less time, and the recipient won’t have to worry about whether they can open it.
- Putting people on your e-mail distribution list without asking them first. You may e-mail them a request to be put on your list with a first edition of the material you’re distributing, but they must respond to be placed on the list to receive further mass e-mail.
- Leaving more than two consecutive voice mail messages. If you didn’t get a call back on your first message, or have to update it, leave a second message. However, if you haven’t received a call back from your second message, put at least 24 hours distance between your second and third message.
- Leaving a voicemail message that tells the recipient to call you but not giving any hint of the purpose or general subject of the call. By doing this you can be assured that your call will not be handled as a priority and when you finally do get a call back, your caller will not have the necessary files or information on hand to make the call productive.
- If you are a man, not letting women enter or exit the elevator first.
- If you are a chauffeur, going around the back of the car to open the door. Professional chauffeurs to diplomats and royalty always walk around the front of the vehicle; it’s a traditional sign of respect indicating you are not hiding something.
What Are You Thinking!
So by now you probably think that I’m some stuffed shirt old guy that is completely out of tune with the times. But before you dismiss the “old school” tried and true logic, consider how many people you have to compete with every day to get that job, that client, that raise, that level of respect and yes, even that special someone you dream about. You have to stand out. You have to make them remember you. You have to be different in a sane way.The people you see in videos and films are bad examples on how to dress and act, if unlike them, you have to get up each morning and earn a living or negotiate with those who do. Use these etiquette tips as a tool to improve your chances of getting where you want to be and improve your life.
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March 10, 2008 at 12:15 am
For me, business etiquette is mainly about honesty and good relationship within customers and business provider. Customer creates demand and business provider provides them. No demand -no business. Its always two ways communication. If you are providing demand that no one need. For sure its a loss for you. Business provider lives because of customer that’s the analogy because business provider once a customer who stand up to provide, instead of demanding.
To provide good demand stuff/service, we must think ahead of customer and other business competitor. The best way is to do research before starting the business to avoid loss.
Customer always have the right to choose with who they want to have business with. We know that customer always right because they have the right (consumerism* search at Wikipedia). The right to know the right information, the right to have knowledge to think, the right to choose and decide what they want, the right to express criticism etc. in order to create happy business environment.
Business provider can’t deny any of these rights in order to sustain their business forever. It’s totally wrong to give the wrong information, to not giving knowledge to customer to decide on, don’t give them to decide/choose, deny their right to complain/critic, else don’t dream of doing business for a long term.
If the business provider avoid/violate these etiquette, consumer have the right to critic. Remember honesty is the best policy -when business organization don’t practice honest policy, all their good deeds will collapse one by one. We must take good care of our business reputation and never ever turn customer down and apologize when we make mistakes and be humble, not show off. People don’t like to do business with harsh people. Same apply in our daily life too.
Just my concern,
amer
PNPYEC
March 12, 2008 at 1:09 am
ello..
i have to admit that im impressed with this blog. But in my personal opinion, the layout is a bit messy and hard to find the key words (maybe for first timers like me..=)).. i wanted to comment on the blog but i couldnt find a place where it is suitable..
well..business ethic = amalan2 yanng baik semasa buat bisnes..(seperti jujur, customer alwys right, dll..)
March 12, 2008 at 1:38 am
oh im sorry for the messy layout. btw this is free stuff haha. the official website is 70% finish and the hosting at yecutp.com we already bought it. In two week time we will be online.
regarding the comment stuff. actually we have to click on the topic and there is the comment thing or just can click on the commentat every topic header
ppl will get used to it.
tu la business etiquette ni penting. memikirkan ramai je pihak yg force customer nk beli. atas dasar kwn la etc. aku xstuju la. klau nk buat event/sell we have to promote dlu abes2san then klau xcukup org br la minta join (btw aku xstuju jgk). coz customer have right to choose wt the best for him. I’m not anti any event or ape. (ppl can know wat event im refering to but i dont wanna say and its not yec event ok jgn terase). just they wan to make event make sure its attractive enough so ppl will voluntary join rite. You are happy customer are happy. nt xde la cite blakang laen depan laen. we have to think la this thing not only focusing on short term profit. Easy say bertimbang rase dlm berbusiness. just my concern.
btw thanks to hazim, our ex-president for his comment. we appreciated it
. nk post anything we welcome it
amer